A blog about being an outcast in everywhere you go and

Author: Andher

  • Winter is over, hopefully

    I know everyone goes through it. This year was one of the roughest for me, at least February was. It was extremely cold and I couldn’t get outside much. This combined with stress of everything else going on just piled up. I act like I am fine with where I am in life and that… Read more

  • Golden Standard

    Anytime I have worked at place for awhile, I come across a new employee (or intern) that is dead set on everything they learned in school. They have decided that what they learned in school is the golden standard and they’re coming in to teach everyone at work how to do it the right way.… Read more

  • Why did I stay so long?

    At some point in my life I became a serial monogamous. It was never on purpose. I am sure it never is for people. I was the one who didn’t want the relationship to begin with. The biggest problem here, isn’t that I am a serial monogamous. It’s that I let relationships go for way… Read more

  • Imposter Syndrome Everywhere

    I was at a training session with my trainer awhile back and he laughed and said that after I left our last session, someone asked him if I was one of the ‘Athletes’ that he trained. My gut reaction was to laugh. Me an ‘Athlete’? I never even considered it. He saw my reaction and… Read more

  • Who am I?

    A few years ago I started writing a journal. I had meant to for years, but always put it off thinking that it was too late to start. What I finally realized is that I needed to let out everything I was holding in. It was therapy for me. It even allowed me to start… Read more